Hey, I guess I want to ask you a question… If love had a colour, what colour do you think it would be?
I started writing this email out thinking about it, and it’s quite an interesting notion. Some people would say red, some people would say blue, some people would say green.
I’m sure others would look deep into what the colours meant and what it means about you?
“Oh, you like red, you must be passionate!”
“Oh, you like green, you must be encouraging”
I had a short, but very passionate, thought process about this, and what colour mine would be. To me, it would be clear.
“Clear, why clear?”
When I say clear, I say the colour of the water. Water is formless, water is see-through, water is transitory. It holds space, and in many ways is reflective. After being a coach for almost a decade, I’ve often noticed one thing about love.
We can put labels and structures on a relationship. We can call it “open, or closed” or “seeing or exclusive.”
It can be “Married” to “it’s a bit complicated.”
“SINGLE AND READY TO MINGLE” or “leave me the fuck alone.”
However, there is usually no structures to how we love. It’s a feeling after all. It’s a feeling that causes us to do things. Move mountains, start wars, write poetry, paint paintings or dare I say, buy a few flowers for somebody we care about.
It’s not something that we can contain. It’s often, just like the nature of the universe, indefinable. The more we try and pin it down, the more it eludes us. The more it changes form. A collective can agree on what it is, but at the end of the day, there are no rules with love. We either do or we don’t. There might be an in-between, but that in itself is an expression of love.
It’s to this extent I see that love, just like life, changes form to suit the moment. It is a little bit exactly like water.
But let me ask you? Please *|FNAME|*, reply back to this email. What colour is your love? If you could put a colour to it, what would that be? Let me know and give me a little explanation. Anybody that replies back to this email will get a free 20% discount on my latest online course (7 Days to Better Connection) to be used this week only.
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