HOW GOOD IS SEX?
I mean, well, we all have different views on it, and truth be told, it’s not the be all and end all of a relationship, but how good it is?
I bring this up because, honestly, sexuality and chemistry is such a major component of a relationship that it is one of the twin forces!
You can define your sexuality as your ability to connect with your own emotions and enjoy them!
Because with this definition, it covers all those times where your sexuality doesn’t just manifest as a sexual encounter with a special somebody, but all the experiences you enjoy as well!
You see, learning about your own sexuality, and getting more “sexual” in your nature can become one of your new superpowers.
YOU SEE, if sexuality is your ability to connect and enjoy your own emotions, and that makes you more sensitive towards love and enjoying the moment, then you instantly become more sensitive towards other people’s emotions. You can understand them at a deeper level and “read between the lines” better.
This is why understanding sexuality can be one of the biggest gifts you can give yourself. ALSO, when you go down this path and appreciate how to enhance sexual tension, you understand the way emotions work.
Sexual tension has the same rise and fall as other emotions. The same as LOVE. It is a MICROCOSM of how love works.
This is why sex is so amazing. It is a sample space of the connection you share. This is why sometimes if you date somebody and they just love you and leave you, it’s because that’s all the spark of the relationship had. Love itself is a beautiful book that you just can’t stop reading, and sex is like reading the blurb and getting excited for it over and over and over again!
So, this week’s Youtube video is about just that.
In this video, I discuss three giant mindsets that, when understood, can drastically increase your ability to dance with sexual tension.
These are some foundational ideas that A LOT OF PEOPLE MISS, and when even if you’re an expert of your own sexuality these are the foundations that your expert-ness is built off.
TWO THINGSThe first is:
ALL SUPER POWERS SHOULD BE USED FOR GOOD! ALWAYS!
The second is:
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