I’ve been thinking, that well…. MEN SUCK!
I mean, we are total dick heads, right? We say things to lead you on and leave you high and dry when you least expect it…
Well… I really wanted to share something a bit deeper into this, exactly WHY men suck! The thing about why men suck is really simple… and I want to share this because some people might not be able to handle it.
The reason why some people won’t be able to handle the REAL reason is because I’m going to keep you accountable. I’m going to point out something that makes you take some of the responsibility…
So. Are you ready for it?
The real reason WHY men suck is NOT because men are all sex-hungry dirtbags, but really because of the people pursuing the men are not taking responsibility for their actions.
NOW BEFORE YOU GO AND DELETE THIS AND SEND ME HATE MAIL I WANT TO EXPLAIN.
Yes, this is a UNIVERSAL ISSUE, so if you know any men who need to read this as well, please forward them this whole thing.
This is something I wish the WORLD would do, not just women, but everybody is START TO TAKE RESPONSIBILITY FOR THEIR OWN ACTIONS. If you’re seeing someone and it doesn’t go well, we have to ask ourselves “what did I do here that created this situation?”
The real truth of the situation is, that if you don’t take responsibility for your actions and admit that something you did attracted a guy who was a bit of a jerk to you, you will never get the pleasure of having a solid learning experience…. and yes… guy’s need to learn from this also.
The thing is, if you keep doing the same thing, you will always get the same results. So if you keep doing the same thing, you will ALWAYS attract the same kind of person!
You might be angry at this point at me because you might say something like
“WELL… what about Jimmy (or what ever his name is), he pushed me around and didn’t call me back!”
This is exactly what I mean.
Do you want to be the kind of person that attracts quality relationships into your life? Do you want to be the kind of person who really has quality people in your life?
Do you want to be the kind of person who constantly attracts the same kinds of guys day in and day out and tolerates painful relationships?
To quote one of my favourite idols, Tony Robbins, he always says
“You get what you tolerate,” and I follow this with everything that I do.
Before you get too angry at me for this email, I’ve made a video that explains it a little better.
Sharam Namdarian 😉
Author, International Dating & Human Dynamics Coach