What to do if he comes back – Ask Harvey #32


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Have you ever been in this situation?

A guy you really like has come into your life, things go then really well but then suddenly he disappears??

Well, that sucks but then he does something even MORE confusing.

He comes back?!

What is he trying to pull here? Does he think he can just walk in and out of your life like that all the time?

Well, there’s a simple rule that I want to share with you, and that’s “we condition people to be in relationships with us.”

What we do, what we say and also what we don’t do and say communicates and shows people how to treat us.

So, if this guy comes walking back into your life and you kind of like him, I want to suggest something:

Make sure he earns it!

He left you, which means he lost his place in your life. If he comes back, he has to go through all the same steps again! If he just assumes he can walk in and out of your life like that, then what’s stopping him from doing it again?

It’s what you communicate and the standards you set.

If a knight has to slay a dragon to win his princess, he isn’t going to look at other princesses!

In this video I also discuss 5 Signs that a guy will show that will demonstrate that he is genuine and there’s a cool free guide at the end as well 🙂

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