Whether you’re single or in a relationship, this video is for you, because the content here is so important, that if you miss out on the key idea here you’re going to miss a bunch of other things.
So listen, why do some people change after marriage?
Honestly, it comes down to one single thing.
The power of beliefs. You see if people believe that marriage looks a certain way, they will create that particular Love Story. Our Love Story is so crucial because it’s what we believe SHOULD happen when it comes to our love life.
Now, if you don’t like your Love Story, we can always change that, but it’s the Love Story, this story of how we believe that love should go, that causes the problems.
Because you might imagine marriage to be this magical thing where all your dreams come true. You might ALSO imagine that husbands and wives have to play different roles.
The key here is that, REALLY, nothing much will change. It’s a ceremony where you sign a piece of paper haha. The key is that people will only CHANGE if they believe that the labels mean that they have to change who they are. That the image in their head is stronger than the image in real life, which sadly is sometimes the case.
But don’t take my word for it, watch the latest Ask Harvey, we discuss this in detail.