It’s time to talk about collaborative relationships.
Because, love itself, IS NOT COLLABORATIVE.
It’s true. As much as you may not want it to be true, it really is.
You do not need somebody’s permission to love them, as they do not need your permission for you to love them.
Bloody hell relationships are. Relationships exist in this real world where we have wants and needs and it is important to recognise that, otherwise you might end up in a situation where you’re used and abused, or you’re in a situation where you keep giving and giving and giving and getting nothing in return.
I point this out because I get asked this all the time. People aren’t really sure what the TRUE BASIS of a collaborative relationship is (and that is the point of today’s video).
Think of it this way, if your garden is full of weeds and you spent your time trying to cut off the leaves of the weeds to make it look or FEEL good, pretty soon the weeds will grow back.
It wasn’t really anything wrong with you, but more how we looked at the situation that didn’t work.
On the other hand, if we get to the root of a situation or problem, and pull it out from there, the situation tends to work.
So in today’s video, I present you with just that. The CORE, or ROOT, of relationships, and that’s the collaboration.
This is something that if you understand, you can’t be used because you can essentially see through the matrix. You can see how a person is or what they are intending before they even say it. It’s an understanding that is easy to learn, hard to master.